When we are thinking about how to present ourselves, we sometimes try to build a work persona. This can be highlighted when we have to present ourselves to people we’ve never met before, for example in an in-person job interview situation, or when working as part of a team. One thing you should not forget is the importance of authenticity and being genuine. Should you create a ‘work persona’ or should you simply be yourself?
Behavioural changes
I’ve written a lot about how we perceive ourselves and how others perceive us. Looking in from the outside, it’s easy to presume that everyone is genuine. However, is honing a ‘work persona’ being disingenuous, deceptive even? Many people can be different between their work selves and the private selves. Everyone’s behaviour changes slightly when they are being seen by others – of that much we are all aware. But to have an entirely different personality at work might start alarm bells ringing, in that someone might be deliberately trying to conceal aspects of their personality.
Social media has made everyone have to look at how they communicate with people in public forums. People often feel more comfortable ‘being themselves’ online and express opinions that would never be aired in the ‘real world’. Workplace analysis such as DISC profiling and other methods can reveal the ‘real person’ – the perceived discrepancy between how we think we see ourselves and how others do. As an employer or manager, it’s interesting to look at the results of such data, and of behaviour online, which can reveal personal aspects that may not otherwise be apparent.
An inclusive workplace
Likeability and authenticity are crucial in relationship building. It’s one of the most important aspects of the workplace. Not everyone in a team has to get on, but it helps if they do. Sometimes a bit of competitiveness, tension even, can make for greater creativity. But in the main you want genuinely likeable people who are personable, knowledgeable, friendly and approachable. Being open at work and talking about aspects of your life beyond the workplace can make you more approachable. It can help to establish common ground and common interests, which can lead to a shared empathy that can spill over into the workplace. People enjoy working with like-minded people and they will naturally be more productive and relaxed. This is a key aspect of relationship building and will help cement a workplace as an inclusive space with an atmosphere conducive to success.
Being likeable and genuine isn’t something a coach or mentor can teach you. However, it can often be a confidence thing – and confidence can be built up. By identifying areas where you feel confident about yourself – say, your communication skills or aptitude for organisational tasks – you can use these as building blocks to become a stronger, more defined personality. But most importantly, one that is still genuine and authentic.